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So, there is an ongoing debate in my house about the rules of engagement on Facebook. Rules for parents, that is…when friends of your children request to be your friend.

To friend or not to friend…that is the question?

According to our kids there is a “rule” that applies to us parents that we are “stalking” if we comment on our kids friend’s walls or we message any of their friends. Having trouble following all the rules? It seems like our children are giving us more rules than we give them these days.

Here’s how I see it. If one of your kids friends decides you are cool enough to be on their inner Facebook friends circle, I say, friend them back. Now some may say that is “weird” or “hey man, you aren’t a teenager anymore, stop living your teen life vicariously through your kids”. My response to them is this, “Listen man, just because you aren’t cool enough to have your kids friends friend you then you should work on being cooler.”

But seriously, the whole “friending” thing isn’t because we (parents) are creepy or stalking. At least I hope that isn’t why you’re on Facebook! Under no circumstances is that acceptable.

Here’s the deal, the rules changed when Facebook opened the community up from the college setting to everyone, everywhere! The fact that parents can stay engaged with their kids, in a community, is a good thing. Of course there are privacy settings and some kids are purposely limiting what they want their parents to see even if they are both friends. Respect goes both ways and you can definitely use this as an opportunity to connect with your kids and their friends.

The Onion News Network has a great take on the whole Parents on Facebook debate! (PG Rating)

So what do you think…To Friend or not Friend- your kids Friends? Let me know.

May be Will Smith said it best “Parents Just Don’t Understand”?

Here is another BIG opportunity for you as a parent…definitely talk with your kids about the rules of social media. Do NOT assume that they know the rules. If you don’t know the rules, feel free to give me a call and I will tell you. In general, the whole world is potentially watching what is being said, by anyone. Know the limits of the uses for the Facebook community.…and know that there are consequences for your actions. This lesson applies to everyone.

“What consequences could there be,” you ask? Just to share a few: You might not get that job you applied for based on something conflicting on your FB page. Or you may not get into your college of choice based on something seen on your FB page. Or you some kids have been suspended based on pictures seen on their FB pages…and the list goes on.

Here ends my lesson on Parenting.

Erik Hultman (a.k.a. E) is founder of ÜberBluerDM, Inc., specializing in educating, empowering, strategizing, implementing, managing, reporting and social media staffing and temps for businesses to build their social media success.

How many faces should you have for your social media program?

How many personalities should you have for your social media program?

On how many things are you the expert?

The suspense is almost too much to handle isn’t it? I know you weren’t expecting a quiz today so I will give you the answer to all the questions above. The answer to all three questions is “ONE”. You must have ONE face, ONE personality and you must be the expert on ONE topic.


You want to let everyone know that you are the ONE best resource to turn to when they have questions, when they need answers and when they want the best! Jack Palance may have said it best in the movie City Slickers. “One thing, just one thing”.

But you have to be the ONE to figure out the ONE thing!

I am always up for providing helpful tips. Maybe having one face is difficult because you are the expert on many different topics. Maybe you need to get your face in

shape before you find that one thing. Here is a helpful four-minute exercise that will make sure you have the best face.

Face Lift Exercises

Fantastic exercise and WOW! do you look great! You are now ready to find your ONE thing. Let me know what your ONE thing is and I look forward to finding, following and forwarding you on your blog, Twitter, Facebook and other social media places.

ONE other thing. ÜberBlueDM supports ONE is a campaign and advocacy organization with more than 2 million members committed to the fight against extreme poverty and preventable disease, particularly in Africa. Cofounded by Bono and other campaigners, ONE is nonpartisan and works closely with African policy makers and activists. Thank you!

Erik Hultman (a.k.a. “E”) is the Founder of ÜberBlueDM, LLC., specializing in educating, empowering, strategizing, implementing, managing and reporting for businesses, to build their social media success.

When I talk to our clients I ask them to look at their hands. As we know each finger serves a purpose and yes…so does the very important big thumb. This reminds me of the movie Stripes when Bill Murray offers to be the BIG Toe (kind of like a big Thumb)(Platoon Leader) if anything happens to Sgt. Hulka.

Hold up your hand and consider each finger one of the reasons for your business to be successful.

1. Advertising
2. Marketing
3. Sales
4. Public Relations
5. You (The BIG Thumb…The Sgt. Hulka…or Bill Murray…you choose).

Each one of these “fingers” of your business cannot operate independently of the others. Each “finger” of your business needs to work in harmony with the others or the handshake (the deal maker) will be limp, weak and more like a deal breaker. We will not get in to the “how to have a handshake” conversation here. Actually, yes we will. . . This very interesting “how to” video on a proper handshake sums it all up. If you are model that is. . .

I will have to pay attention next time I shake the hand of a model. I think I will know whether or not they have seen this video. And most importantly…”Don’t pump it”, no one likes that? Seriously this nice lady was way ahead of the Shake Weight.

Now that we are back on track and know how to shake hands, what is the one thing you may be missing? What is the extra finger you would grow if it were possible? The #1 new thing you need that you can use to tie them all together? You already know the answer. YOU NEED SOCIAL MEDIA.

But you’ll have to keep them all on the same hand because “one hand doesn’t always know what the other hand is doing”!

So if I may point this out one more time. It isn’t possible to grow an extra finger. But it is possible to include SOCIAL MEDIA in your business mix

What questions do you have about growing that 6th finger of SOCIAL MEDIA?

Erik Hultman (a.k.a. E) is founder of ÜberBlueDM, LLC., specializing in educating, empowering, strategizing, implementing, managing and reporting for businesses to build their social media success.